Had an idea the other night.

One of the things that has been a huge brick wall in the way of our sex life has been the fact that penetration is painful for my wife. She's kind of hung up on the idea that sex has to HAVE penetration, and as a result we don't have any sex at all.

The other night I suggested intercrural sex (between the thighs) and she was favorably disposed to trying it out.

Of course, we do a lot of talking and little doing, so we'll see what happens.

You may be wondering why there are no posts...

You (that is, all four of you who actually read this) may be wondering why there haven't been any posts for a while.

The reason is that things really aren't changing. There's not much to report. Stagnation is the order of the day, at least as far as my marriage is concerned. Everything I've tried has gone nowhere, and right now I'm out of ideas. We haven't even been back to the marriage therapist.

My New Year's Resolution

My New Year's Resolution this year is to stop enabling my wife's bad habits that are preventing her from getting the surgery she needs.

She doesn't get enough exercise and she doesn't eat right... and those rub off on me as well. We have two or three desserts a night, and I've been the one who was making them. Not anymore. I am making ONE dessert a night, and sharing it with the kids.

We are getting a membership to the local pool and I'm taking her swimming two mornings a week.