First, go read this post by Audacia Ray.
Done?
Good.
Just because I'm not having sex with my wife doesn't mean I'm not having sex.
It doesn't mean I'm "missing out". It doesn't mean our relationship is damaged or weak or wrong. It just means we're not having sex.
And that's all.
Now that's not to say that not having sex with my wife is a good thing. It still hurts and it still feels like there's something between us. But "fixing" that wouldn't magically make everything else into puppies and sunshine.
Through my writing and reading, and the masturbation sessions they inspire, I have sex.
I have a sex life.
Learning this has been an incredible revelation. I relief, really.
Thank you, Audacia Ray.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
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I realize that it has been some time since you have posted. I found your writings to be raw, deep and insightful. Thank you for your frankness and sharing. I have nominated your blog for The Honest Scrap Award. Please stop by to read more.
Katharina
Thanks, Katharina. Support from folks like you means a lot to me.
I haven't posted because there really hasn't been much to post about. Things are pretty much the same as ever.
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